It matters-the way your kids feel about the move. They may be less involved in terms of the moving but they are the ones much more affected with the impact and results of the move. So, don't make your kids feel less important when you move. Ask them how they feel about it and make them learn and understand more about your need to move.   Kids should be well prepared when you move. Although they can't fully understand everything that is going in their surrounding, they deserve to know the importance of moving.  They will understand more, sometimes, better than the way adults understand things. So, don't underestimate them.   When you move, the kids will have to leave their old school. They have to adapt to a new environment and it will help them if you be with them all the time, even on the first day of their school. Though you are also adjusting with the new environment, you have to cope with the changes with your kids.   When you have teenage kids, the more you have to be extra careful in making them understand things and dealing with the changes. Teenagers are very sensitive and you have to listen to them and sometimes compromise things for them.