When moving houses due to a job transfer, you really have no choice but to go to where your job is. It's quite easier if you are going alone. But when you are going with your family, you will have them to consider too. You have to tell them as soon as the transfer has been decided. If your children reacts negatively to the transfer, simply talk to them some more and explains things to them too.   Moving houses, especially if you are moving to a different state, can be quite expensive. For one you would need to find a new home for your family. Then moving your things and going to your new place certainly cost money. Research is important even if you don't have much time. For one when looking for a home make an effort to know the current pricing of apartment rental or real estate in the state you are moving to.   For packing your things you can ask for free sturdy boxes from grocery stores and from friends who have recently moved. You can also search for free boxes online. And to save money you can pack your things yourself. But when moving with your family, you can make things easier by hiring a removals company to transport your things.   Some companies reimburse your moving expenses though. If this is the case, you can really have a more convenient move.